This last
week we spoke about how our bodies typically respond to stressors. Everyone is
a little different and how we respond to stressors can change over time. I know
for me it’s been interesting to say the least. I’ve been able to deal with
higher and higher levels of stress as I’ve deliberately exposed myself to job
that create high stress situations. One of the main reasons I took my last job
was to expose myself to a situation that was particularly stressful and unpleasant
the first time I dealt with it. When I was working in the North Dakota oil
field, I held a position with my first company that required me to help offload
pneumatic semi-trucks that were full of sand. We used a high-pressure air
system (pneumatic) to blow air through the tanks and unload the trucks into
another system. The system we offloaded into looked like a larger semi-truck
trailer that you would see driving for Walmart or some other type of freight
company, but only they were about 30% larger. They were a little wider and a
bit taller than a normal trailer and had 4 separate bins with in them that held
frak sand. The job required me to inform the drivers as to which bin they could
connect to and when they would be able to offload the trucks. This was very
time consuming and inefficient due to a lack of space on location. The Location
was very small and they required a very large amount of sand per stage in order
to frak. I was only able to off load 3 maybe 4 trucks at a time for a total of
240k pounds of sand at most. It would take me at least 45 min to offload these
4 trucks. Each stage that they would frak took 550k pounds of sand and they
would try to do a stage every hour. So, it would take me a minimum of 2 hours
and 15 min before I would be able to get enough sand for one stage. Needless to
say, I was under a lot of stress because I was not able to perform at the level
that the location required. Couple that with issues with other crew members
that only made the situation worse due to a lack of motivation on their part.
So needless to say, the company that I worked for lost their contract and we
were then told to not go to that location for that company any more. Out of the
6 people that were a part of that crew, I was the only one that kept my job. It
was a good learning experience but it was extremely stressful. I stayed with
that company for another year and half, but decided it was time for a change
and signed up with the company that took over after my company was removed.
Over the next 10 months I was able to pick up and learn a lot about what was
wrong and how to do better. Considering that I never had any training with
working with pneumatic trailers before the second round went much better. Not
only was I able to perform much better than I had during my first attempt, I was
able to actually keep up and get ahead of the fraking location. Where before,
the stress was out of control. I learned a few tricks to help me deal with
stress and to help me to keep it from derailing my efforts. This was the main
reason I wanted to take that job. So, I could learn and improve on an
experience that was so very unpleasant. I got to a point where there was no
more stress with the work and I had developed a routine to that allowed me to
succeed. Learning how to calm myself down when things got crazy, and even more
important, getting ahead of the stress before it became a thing I had to deal
with. It’s much easier to get ahead and stay ahead of it rather than trying to
play catch up. It’s possible to recover but a bit harder than staying ahead of
it. Of course, long term stress is never a good thing as it has long lasting
effects on our bodies. It can even impact our DNA which is never a good thing.
Though it can give you a super power, unfortunately the super powers it gives
are always unpleasant and cancer causing.
This week was an interesting week. We talked about sexual intimacy and how it can affect both partners differently. It seems that society thinks of sex as a very casual thing that is more of a bargaining chip and less of a tool to grow closer to your partner. Then again, it really seems like society tends to get things incorrect. Especially if you were to listen to the media, they basically just sell whatever you want to buy regardless of its truthfulness. It’s almost become a running joke as to how badly the media displays its fictions. Today’s media will have us believe that we should only use sexuality as a means to obtain instant gratification or to get something that we want and instead of using it for its intended purpose which is to have children and to grow closer with a partner. People get caught up in the wrong aspects of intimacy and we see over and over that it does not lead to a happy place. People are feeding the wrong desires with in themselves and it quickly becomes...
this sucks
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