This week in
class we discussed gender differences between men and women. We watched a
documentary filmed by ABC news that investigated some of the differences
between men and women. A large portion of the differences that were discussed
in this film were from the perspectives from both genders. Many arguments were
made in regard to physical differences especially when strength was an issue.
The documentary gave an example of how when women enroll in the military, there
is a significantly lower ratio of women that are able to achieve the physical
demands that are required to serve in the military. It is because of the
lopsidedness of the ratio that the military then alters the physical requirement
that women must meet, in order to qualify for service. Several arguments were
made in both support and opposition to this alteration. Men tend to have more
upper body strength than women which allows for men to achieve the heavier
requirements. Another argument for a male dominated military was that war is a
very violent and physically demanding profession so, having people with an
ability to be physically active and strong would, dominate the field would lead
to a higher rate of success in war efforts. Strength was a factor in regards to
women applying for firefighting jobs as well. The strength needed to
perform the tasks, were often out of reach for most of the women that were
trying to qualify. The documentary finished with a statement that men and women
are different, and this difference should not be condemned but celebrated. I
could not agree more. I think all too often, people confuse the word different
with the word bad. Different just means not the same. That is not to say,
unequal. To use a mathematical reference in regards to this difference, x = y.
While x and y are equal to each other, they are inherently different but both
of the same value. Of course, the documentary stated that these observations
were based on the averages of each gender. There were some individual women
that were able to keep up with their male counter parts. The argument was based
on overall gender differences. Another issue was raised concerning the possibility
of gender discrimination when it comes to job opportunities. There was an
individual that was interviewed that argued that women were being kept out of
certain fields because of their gender. While I’m sure that this discrimination
does exist in some small pockets of groups, I do not believe nor does the documentary
state, that this was true. The counter argument was that there were fewer
female engineers, because most women gravitate towards other professions. Not
that they were being excluded because of gender, but because of their own
individual lack of interest in the subject. The topic that was never brought up
was the fact that men are not even equal to other men in terms of physical
traits, so how can women be equal to men when they already have less body mass
on average than the average man. Another argument for discrimination against
women was the cost of services women had to pay. For instance, they had to pay
higher prices to get haircuts and they thought this was unfair. The argument in
support of the higher pay was because of the time it took to perform the same
service. I’ve also heard people argue for what they called the pink tax.
Stating that women were being discriminated when it comes to buying products
marketed to women like women’s razors. The counter for that is more components
go into making women’s razors than men. Plus, if women want to pay the same
money as men for razors, they can then buy men’s razors. all in all, it was an interesting
documentary. But the story was still the same. People complaining about their
own misconceptions and trying to make everyone suffer because of it. While no
one should be left behind, you cannot expect a society to advance and be as
strong as it must be, if everyone is keeping up with the slow poke. That being
said, women do have a lot of strengths to which men on average are weaker in.
The focus should be to let our weakness be complimented by the strength of our
peers and stop being glory hogs by trying to take all of the spot light. We are
both halves intended to complete each other. Instead, people just complain and
cry about trivial molehills that they demand be made into mountains.
This week was an interesting week. We talked about sexual intimacy and how it can affect both partners differently. It seems that society thinks of sex as a very casual thing that is more of a bargaining chip and less of a tool to grow closer to your partner. Then again, it really seems like society tends to get things incorrect. Especially if you were to listen to the media, they basically just sell whatever you want to buy regardless of its truthfulness. It’s almost become a running joke as to how badly the media displays its fictions. Today’s media will have us believe that we should only use sexuality as a means to obtain instant gratification or to get something that we want and instead of using it for its intended purpose which is to have children and to grow closer with a partner. People get caught up in the wrong aspects of intimacy and we see over and over that it does not lead to a happy place. People are feeding the wrong desires with in themselves and it quickly becomes...
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